So, you wanna get your groove on on the first date, huh? Well, we say, why the heck not?! As long as you're being safe and respectful, there's no reason you can't have a blast. Here's how to make sure your night is sizzlin' hot and safe as can be.
Mental Safety First things first, let's talk about your brain, baby. Safe sex isn't just about condoms, it's about making sure you're in the right headspace. Keep these tips in mind:
- Sober = Sexy: Don't get it twisted, sex and booze/drugs do NOT mix. Make sure you're both clear-headed and ready for whatever might go down.
- Get on the Same Page: Some folks are all about that relationship life, others are down for a fun night. Make sure you know what the other person is looking for so no one gets hurt feelings.
- Communication is Key: It's okay to ask "Is this cool with you?" or "Do you like that?" Checking in shows you care and makes things way hotter.
Physical Safety Now that we've got the mental stuff covered, let's talk about the fun stuff – and how to make sure you can have fun without worrying about your health.
- Condoms are Your BFF: Seriously, condoms are the best. They keep you from getting pregnant (if that's a thing you need to worry about) and prevent STIs. Don't be stingy, use a new one every time!
- Don't Be Scared of Getting Tested: If someone's all "I don't want to use a condom," that's a major red flag. You deserve better than someone who doesn't care about your health.
- Lube Up! Some lubes have extra goodies that can help keep you safe. But don't think that means you can skip the condom!
- Toys Are Fun, But Be Safe: Don't share your toys, and consider wrapping them up or using a cheap one if you're with someone new. And don't even get us started on how much better toys are with some awesome lube or other fun stuff.
First date sex can be a blast as long as you're being smart. Stock up on condoms, get some fun toys, and always put your safety first. Happy adventuring!