According to a study by Penn State Behrend, the desirable duration for sex is between 7 and 13 minutes. Ooh, la la! That's quite the target to aim for, isn't it? But let's be real, sometimes life gets in the way and a full-blown 13-minute romp just isn't in the cards. That's where quickie sex comes to the rescue! Whether you're a busy professional, a harried parent, or just someone who needs a little midday delight, quickie sex is the perfect solution for those days when time is tight but the urge is strong.
First things first, leave your clothes on! We know, we know, full-frontal nudity is the classic sex scene cliche. But when time's a-ticking, every second counts. Save the striptease for another day and keep things convenient. Just make sure you and your partner are comfortable – no pinching or binding allowed!
Speaking of convenience, think about dressing for easy access. Gentlemen, consider investing in some comfy, yet revealing underwear. Ladies, why not try some open-crotch or crotchless undies? Or, heck, ditch the underwear altogether if you're feeling bold! The goal here is to make it as simple as possible to get down to business.
Foreplay? Who needs it? Okay, okay, we all know foreplay is crucial for a satisfying sexual experience. But when quickies are the order of the day, you've got to get creative. Sexting, phone sex, or even using those nifty long-distance sex toys from Suzie’s can get you both revved up and ready to go.
But what about warming up? Gentlemen, a quickie masturbation session beforehand can make you extra sensitive and ready to pop. Ladies, a little self-love can help get things nice and wet for your partner. Just remember, the goal is to finish in time for your next meeting/kid's soccer game/whatever else is on your jam-packed schedule.
Lube is your best friend when time is short. Slick things up down there to make the whole process smoother and more comfortable for everyone involved. We have all sorts of lubes in travel-friendly sizes, so you can keep things slick no matter where your quickie takes place.
Now, let's talk about distractions. If you want to get the job done fast, focus is key. Turn off your phone, silence the roommates, and zone in on the task at hand. The more you can eliminate those pesky interruptions, the faster you'll be able to reach your goal.
And speaking of goals, don't forget about the power of toys! A little vibration can work wonders for getting things moving along. Gentlemen, a vibrating ring can make you last longer and hit that finish line with a bang. Ladies, a clitoral vibrator can help you reach your climax in no time. And the best part? These toys can be just as fun to use during longer lovemaking sessions.
Communication is the glue that holds it all together. During your quickie, don't be shy about letting your partner know what feels good and what you want more of. A simple "right there!" or "faster, harder!" can make a world of difference. And don't forget about the power of dirty talk – it adds a whole new level of excitement, even when time is tight.
The next time you find yourself short on time but long on desire, remember these tips and get ready to make the most of every steamy second. And who knows, you might just discover that quickies are the secret to keeping your love life spicy, even on the busiest of days.