Okay, let's talk about a topic that's been around since the dawn of time (or at least since the dawn of the internet): masturbation. And not just any masturbation, but the often-stigmatized, sometimes-embarrassing kind that people do when they're all alone with their thoughts (and possibly a trusty vibrator or two).
First things first, let's debunk a myth: masturbation is not just for men. In fact, a surprising number of people are doing it - about 25% of men and a mere 9% of women admit to it daily. But let's be real, how many of the other 91% of women and 75% of men are too ashamed to fess up? We're guessing it's a lot.
So why the secrecy and shame? Well, it's complicated. Society has a long history of telling us that masturbation is gross, wrong, or something to be embarrassed about. And let's face it, some of those messages stick, even in the age of "Sex and the City" and "Fifty Shades."
But here's the thing: masturbation is awesome. Like, ridiculously awesome. It's the ultimate "treat yourself" activity, with benefits that'll make your head spin (in a good way).
For starters, it feels amazing. Duh. But beyond that, it's also a great way to get to know your body, figure out what turns you on, and relax after a stressful day. And let's not forget about the "orgasm face" - that blissed-out, grinning, wide-eyed look that says "Yes, this feels really, really good."
And the best part? You don't need a partner to enjoy it. Whether you're single, in a long-term relationship, or just need some "me time," masturbation has got your back. It's like a solo vacation for your pleasure center.
Of course, the conversation around masturbation is still a little lopsided. While women are often praised for embracing their sexuality and using toys to get off, guys are sometimes made to feel weird or even gross for doing the same thing. It's like society is telling men, "Sure, self-pleasure is fine...for women."
But here's the thing: men like to feel good too! And guess what? They have prostates that can feel reeeally good when stimulated. But thanks to a whole lot of homophobia and shame, many straight cis guys have no idea this is even a thing.
So what's the solution? Well, it's time to get a little more candid about male masturbation - and not just in a "let's laugh at the guys" kind of way. We need to normalize the idea that guys like to get off, just like women do.
And who knows, maybe if we make masturbation a little less taboo and a lot more fun, more people will be willing to admit they're doing it. And who knows what else they might be willing to try...
So next time you're alone and feeling frisky, remember: there's no shame in treating yourself to a little self-love. And who knows, you might even enjoy it so much you'll want to do it again tomorrow!