Captain Obvious says: blow jobs can be a fun and super-sexy part of foreplay, or it can be the main event. Here's the thing, though, there's almost always a way or (several ways) to make a good thing even better - for all participants. If you've been looking for a new way to give or receive oral sex, read on for some fun blow job position suggestions. Whether you're a going-down beginner or a seasoned fellatio expert, there's something hot for everyone on this list!
"Regular" might be the most common blow job position, but that doesn't make it boring! In this classic setup, the receiver lies on their back with their legs open while the giver is on their stomach or knees on the bed, nestled between the receiver's legs. It's a natural way to get down to business, but don't underestimate the potential for creativity. Add some pillows or cushions to create a more comfortable angle, or even try a little side-to-side motion to keep things interesting.
Kneeling is the "Regular" position's upright cousin. Whether the recipient is standing or sitting, you simply kneel in front of them and get to work. It's a simple but oh-so-effective position that puts you right at their level. Plus, it leaves both hands free to explore other erogenous zones, making it a total win-win.
Feeling fancy? Try the "Boss' Chair" position, where the power dynamics get turned on their head. The recipient takes a seat, and you kneel in front of them, just like in the Kneeling position. But the real twist is that this position can be performed anywhere the recipient is seated - a chair in the living room, a stool at the kitchen counter, or even at a desk in a home office. Talk about a power move!
Miss the movie theater days? Recreate the magic of the "Cinema" position by sitting side-by-side with your partner, facing the same direction. You can both lean in for a cinematic makeout session while you administer oral pleasure. The unique side-angle approach makes this position extra exciting for both parties.
The "Thigh Pillow" position is all about finding that perfect angle. Either have the recipient lie on their side with their top leg lifted, or switch it up and have them sit with their legs up by your head. In either variation, your partner's thigh creates a comfy pillow for your head, and you're all set for some seriously pleasurable oral action.
Feeling adventurous? The "Jack Hammer" position is your answer. Have the recipient stand or kneel while you sit on the floor between their legs. They can then slowly thrust into your mouth, creating a unique and exhilarating sensation. Just be sure to communicate openly about pace and depth to keep things comfortable and enjoyable for both of you.
If you like the idea of being in control, try the "Plumber" position. Lie on your back while your partner kneels or stands above you, their knees on either side of your head, and their penis directly in front of your face. This position allows for plenty of face-to-face eye contact and the potential for some hands-free pleasure for the receiver.
And for the ultimate deepthroating experience, there's the "Laid Back" position. Have your partner lie on their back with their head hanging off the bed, while you kneel or stand in front of them. This setup allows for a longer throat passage, making deepthroating easier and more comfortable. As always, communication is key - if it's not working for either of you, adjust the angle or try a different position altogether.
Remember to keep the lines of communication open, experiment with what you both enjoy, and don't take yourselves too seriously. Oral sex should be all about pleasure, so have fun and enjoy the ride! Here are some of our favorite aides!